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Are Gers materialistics?

  • Oct. 8th, 2007 at 9:10 AM
Have you being called a materialistic? Do you accept this status? i read someone's blog some time ago, a friend forwarded it to me. I read and had some strong personal views. hmm.

i agree tt we are all materialistic. and i mean i ammmmmm..wahahaha. i use to tink i m jux practical but i hav come to believe i m jux more materialistic, given my situation at hm. I am condition to tinkin tt $ can solve many tings..which is true actually. Many problems arises bcos of it. And i wan to enjoy what i lack of bcos of what my family is not able to support me financially. haiz. but then again, what to do? i do not have such contacts, wan materialistic oso cant right? lol..

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i think guys who drive flashy cars are ok (after i do my research abt car stuff in my old company..i come to realise y) but i hate guys who modifies illegal car enginesssss.. its simply stupid. HW POWERFUL DO THEY NID TO B ON SINGAPORE ROAD? stupid ppl pay $ to workshops for nthg. the workshop ppl mux b gaining alot margin from it.these ppl r plainly jux attention seekers!! bastards. so much $ to throw ard. i see a guy VROOM VROOM his engine past a traffic light b4.lol. e sight is funny.
 
and also, i tink having state of art electronic gadgets are not bcos of materialistic, given my ex bf and my kor kor who are both IT CRAZE.. they love IT for certain reason bt definitely nt to shw it off.. once, i went out wit my grp of frenx n my ex bf together, we wanted to take neo print together, but my ex die die oso refuse to take. his reason being "its his yuan ze not to take neo print." he see absolutely no reason y do we spend $$ on a machine tt is not clear at all n pict so small.. it doesnt make sense to him y he wld take a neoprint when he can take a beta pic wit smthg else" i tink it explains y he insist on hi tech stuff..but does mean neo print machine comes out after camera. den he wld go all out to buy e neo print machine jux bcos it takes picture too.. lol.
 
guys wit nS is really a torture, seeing vin n ter and some of my frens who went in this 2yrs.i tink perhaps bcos it was a bit too early in their life right after education to learn to take this kinda discipline in there ? but then again its nv possible for guys to giv birth, so no point arguing.lol. 

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anyway i was readin tis bk abt marriage life and a baby. its a story abt a couple who are the careeer minded ppl. e ger plan pregancy w/o e husband knwing, thinkin tt she's ready for everyting. den she come to realise hw difficult it is to cope wit mornin sickness. with the sudden pain. with the child delivery. she waited for 14hrs b4 it came out,imagine e pain. den she has to do breast feeding which she nv knew cld b disastrous. e baby gt a habit which was nt able to stop. she cld not bear to see her baby cry and howl down e hse , neither can she see any use of hiring a babysitter. she gt so trapped in e problems tt she scream at her boss n quited the job. became suspicious of her husband rekindle love with his ex and she slPT with her boss to get back at e husband. worst of all, she use to b those super confident with good sexy body, but after birth, she became so bad. she only can wear her husband old t shirts and nthg else. she loses all her confident and frenx. No one seems to b able to understand. she even felt tt its unsafe to leave her child with her husband alone.fearing tt e baby wld howl without her at hm he doesnt knw how to take care of e baby.
 
Think. all this has to b faced by a women alone. its not a issue abt 9 months, NEITHER isit a 2yrs issue. its not like once e baby is out and everyting comes to a stop n back to life. In any case, husband does not seems to b of any help really. all they can do is provide e sperm nia. I read tt book den come to understand y postnatal depression happens. really scary. back to topic, with such tings, hw can preganacy b compared to NS? its jux two different issues. Somemore guys do reservist when they r double paid i heard. gov pay n company pays. and many times, they go back for lesson for practice, nthg tedious, so its as gd as a break (tts wad i heard).
 
abt the guys flirting and slping ard bcos of biological needs. hmm. tt one depends on each situation ba? WE have to really accept e fact tt gers n guys are born really differently. Especially after angie tang tell us abt her husband n guy tinkin n stuff (abt cant remembering the road to SP after so many yrs...abt only can concentrate on one ting n have to let them concentrate on career. (ssSshh... i tink guys r really much easily arouse than gers.i was surprise when i kknew it too..lol. keke. i knw it bcos of ........Ssshhh). tt of cos doesnt give them e right to slp ard, nt takin responsibilty. bt if problem lies on us tt they went ard slpin n yet we do nthg, den who are we to blame abt?

 
abt the last part, ger bcomin monster bcos we r independent. sadly, YES.we earn more, we gain more status. we bcome increasingly as and even more important in e economy in e workforce. We no longer sit at hm only. neither do we only work. women nowadays do both. Children, work, housework. so, guys of cos felt threaten, dont they? their usual line is always" who do i work hard for? i work hard to earn money for this family, for our children for beta life" but tis will no longer useful on us in this society singapore anymore. We work as hard and we take care of more things. Yet they are still marching on e same spot at whr they use to be..

Chemical Peel at Raffles Hospital

  • Oct. 6th, 2007 at 1:58 AM
chemical peel at raffles hospital

oh my god. realise my goods are stacking on cupboard and i have not done anyting new to it. been scratchin my head and haben got a good suggestion wad to do.. i am stil tryin very hard to come up with new idea of what new products tt i can bring in. tot of bringing sunglasses. seen some really cool ones tru some distributors overseas..bt e problem is selling sunglass here like many wld tink, cannot try on so very hard to gauge if they suits u. mayb u guys can tell me whether u r keen on checking out new sunglaSses here.. at a price say $25-$30? just a little survey.

for the time being maybe i should blog on something else instead. HAD BeEn ROTTING at hm for the past 3weeks alrdy. not doing much and tinking back wonder hw come time passes so fast. You knw. its like waiting so long to serve my one month notice and then e next thing i realise is my $$ saving in mybank account is really draining.

Jus in a day on 1/10/07 i spent like:
$358.00 on facial chemical peel of 3treatments.
$120 on a carlo rino bag
$10 for biore sun block
$$ for the fruits and miscellaneous stuff tt i bought.

Nw u knw y i am so broke.Anyway i has been searching and looking out for chemical peeling information. i came across the forum-er tt she gt a fantastic result after 10 peels 5 or 6 yrs ago.. at a price of $75 each peel at her time at raffles hospital with dr Yeak. then she recommended her to many other forum-ers..

reading so much comment, i end up only hoping that the effect will not be too extreme to cause my face to swell and bruise. i went ahead for the appointment at 1030 1/10/07 only to realise tt e lady whom i called e other day to make appt, make a mistake of my appt. she put me into 4/10 instead. after some negotiation, the staff is willing to put me into a time slot in e noon if i am willing to wait. (anyway her clinic only opens in e noon tt day.). Thou i was kinda pissed off for the fact tt its my first experience doing a treatment at raffles hospi with my own hard earn savings..i am not treated well with a simple thing like making a wrong appointment. But never the less, i cant deny tt i wasnt as bad as i tot at first.

in e noon i came back for the appt with my mum. the clinic is really good. the ambience..the lighting..e smell, the professional look.. i m convinced tt all this experience is worth my $ after all. but just to add on, i had a little disappointment with my dr..she didnt comment much abt my condition neither did she give any advice..nt even when i ask" so hw many times do u tink i shld do before i can see any results?"

u knw what she replied? she says"i am not sure hw ur skin will react to the peel so i cant tell hw many times u need. Its up to u.." so it ended there "...Up to u" ha. den y do i nid a consultation man.. their consultation fee with a GP is $30 but luckily i do not have to pay bcos i took their package. but then again its a gd and bad point. they stress tt they are hospitals. they do not push products like what some salons are doing..

e peel at the room is fantastic.lik what the rest has commented. its lik goin to a facial. The nurse cleanses your face while u lie down..den do everyting den wait for dr come in to apply the chemical liquid. the lowest acidity they use is 20% folowed by 35%, 50%, 75%.. she skip 20% and straight apply 35%. she say my face no reaction, no reddness so she say can put 50%..lol but 50% seems lik no reaction too. She say she's tempted to put 75% bt she cant cuz she's afraid there might be burns..

so it was left on for lik less than 5 min i tink. i dono exactly. den she wash it off..put on a cold towel. my mum says only a bit of red on my cheek, no obvious change.

i came hm a few days le. nthg peelin lei. disappointed. Dr yeak stil says i m responding well.lol~ i tink my skin too thick, tts y. but theres a few little pimples poppin out. not sure if its good or bad. just hope tt they do not leave any scarring~bt dr did tell me pimple will b put cux the chemical actually forces the dirts tt clog in e pores out.. ha..

for any one who is stil curious abt what chemical peelin is all abt, this is what i read from wikipedia..:

A chemical peel is a body treatment technique used to improve and smooth the texture of the facial skin using a chemical solution that causes the skin to blister and eventually peel off. The regenerated skin is usually smoother and less wrinkled than the old skin. Thus the term chemical peel is derived. Some types of chemical peels can be purchased and administered without a medical license, however people are advised to seek professional help from a plastic surgeon or dermatologist on a specific type of chemical peel before a procedure is performed.

Alpha hydroxy acid peels( AHA)
AHA are naturally occuring organic carboxylic acids such as glycolic acid (e one tt i use), a natural constituent of sugar came juice and lactic acid, found in sour milk and tomato juice. The is the mildest of the peel formulas and produces light peels for treatment of fine wrinkles, areas of dryness, uneven pigmentation and acne (e reason y i m there).
AHA can also b found in some facial wash and cream in lesser concentration as a daily skin care regimen to improve skin texture.

AHA peels are used to:
reduce fine wrinkling
treat areas of dryness
reduce uneven pigmentation
aid in the control of acne
smooth rough dry skin
improve the texture of sun-damaged skin

AHA peels may:
cause stinging
cause skin redness
cause mild skin irritation
cause dryness
take multiple treatments for desired results

IN SHORT CONCLUSION:
chemical peel is to remove top layer of skin, for ur skin to renew, grow new ones..

i m warned by many to avoid oily fried stuff..sweet stuff and snacks crackers..but i cant resist e sight of pringle sitting infront of me untouched. omg i tink i can finish them off b4 i slp..

tml will be off meeting vin liying fiona. chatted with a old fren(kiankai). mayb he might b joining us too..omg. i tink tml will b hard to host outing~~

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